Thursday, April 23, 2009

Sleeping Arrangement

Barbara over at TherExtras posed a question on her blog last week asking:

How have you arranged your home
to enhance your child’s development?

This question immediately had me thinking of my Elisabeth. Her development is severely delayed due to brain damage and we are completely dedicated to helping her reach her fullest potential.

So how have I arranged my home to help enhance her development? Here is my answer:

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Three little beds are arranged all together.
Close.
Safe.


Three little girls get tucked into those little beds.
Hugs.
Kisses.


One baby girl listens to her big sisters
whisper back and forth in the dark.
Excitement.
Giggles.


And then she drifts off to sleep knowing that she's not alone....
that she's never alone....
that she is always surrounded by her family....
that her big sisters will keep her close and keep her safe.


What could be better for a child's
development than a sense of security
and the feeling of love?

29 comments:

Katie said...

THAT post is PERFECT!!!!!!

YOU are right!

She WILL grow up feeling loved...so much!

I am envious. I have 2 older sisters who, to this day, I wish I were closer to. I wish my Mom would've put me in a room with them to help them love me more. I pray that your girls grow up to love each other unconditionally and without judging eachother.

You are doing great things for Elisabeth. No wonder she is doing SO well. You are constantly thinking and working on what is best for her, for them, for your family.
Way to go, Lisa!!

Brooke said...

Beautiful words about your beautiful girls!

therextras said...

Perfect came to my mind, too! Thanks so much, Lisa! This post will be linked into the carnival when it is posted on Saturday.

Your daughters are beautiful - no surprise. :)

Barbara

KaTrina said...

I only hope I can be half the mom you are on your blog. This is amazing Lisa!

Kristen said...

Sooooooooooooo TRUE!!!

Life is just beautiful when it's filled with so much love!!

Jan the crazy lady said...

So great Lisa. That is total security.

David said...

7th

Beth said...

I love their room and that they are all together! So sweet....

Heidi 'n' Jeff said...

I love that they whisper at night. I think that's so sweet. Abbey has never liked sharing a room with Lindsay. She especially is hitting the "my room" phase. {shudder} Teen years are not far behind.

Sherri said...

What wonderful memories they are making!

The Soldatke family said...

That is so sweet. I love the fact that they all share a room! How sweet. And our therapist says that the best therapy for our children is there siblings, so I think you are spot on. What can be better????

Jenn said...

What a great thing to do. For all of them! Sisters are the best.

tharker said...

I love that your girls are all together in the same room. It reminds of Elizabeth and Jane in Pride and Predjudice. So very sweet!

Alicia said...

How sweet! I love your girls! It's obvious that you're definitely doing things right.

3 Peas in a Pod said...

How sweet! I love that your girlies 3 are all in the same room. Elisabeth will definitely grow up knowing that she's loved and never alone.

Much love from NJ,
Sue
xoxo

PRP said...

That's how I'd like to go to sleep every night and I'm far from being a kid. You're doing an amazing job!

Josephine said...

Beautiful and true :)

Amy said...

well said

Marilyn said...

What a beautiful post, I loved every word of it.

debsters said...

You're right, a feeling of security is at the top of the list for healthy development. Love the pictures.

Jennybell said...

So sweet they all share a room. Too many families today think each kid needs their own room (and bathroom! HUH?)

misty said...

that is really sweet the boys share a room and they whisper at night before bed too i love it they are so close and even though cameryn is in another room they are still so close to there baby sister they are always playing with her and that is the way it should be

Yasmine said...

Soooooo sweet. I'm pretty sure Elisabeth can feel all the love--how could she not?

Bird said...

Beautiful post, Lisa. So, so true.

MSB said...

Are you sharing (ie the post on my blog?)

Lori said...

You're so thoughtful, Lisa. Not just about things like half-birthdays, but about life in general. Thanks for the inspiration!

Mrs. Mac said...

What a beautiful post. You have set off a chain reaction of nurturing between your beautiful daughters.

Terri said...

Lovely!

dani said...

i love it!!! every night's a slumber party to which sweet baby elisabeth is invited...
perfect:)
love,
dani xxxxx