One of my favorite things to do when Alexandra and Lorelai have a 'sisterly spat' is to make them write down what they love about eachother. Example:

This was written by my kindergartener, Lorelai, and it translates to:
I love you Alexandra. She's cute. I like it when she goes on the couch and jumps with her hands up in the air and says "I'm gorgeous!".

This was written by my kindergartener, Lorelai, and it translates to:
I love you Alexandra. She's cute. I like it when she goes on the couch and jumps with her hands up in the air and says "I'm gorgeous!".
This method works like a charm. Not only do they forget whatever it was they were fighting about, but you end up with a priceless keepsake. A total win-win situation if you ask me.